As many of you know, College House decisions were released this week, and naturally the results caused quite a stir amongst us first years. On Monday afternoon, I had immense trouble making my way through the Smith Union. There were two reasons for this:  first, it was physically challenging to get through the sea of first years huddling like penguins checking their mailboxes, and second, I had a hard time watching the reactions of my fellow compatriots as they uncovered their fate. 

The whole scene was like a battlefield. I saw a stocky hockey player fight his way to his mailbox by vehemently pushing a group of petite girls out of his path. I watched two excited friends do a ritual jump hug and make some sort of strangely high-pitched chihuahua-like victory screeches as they tore open their acceptances. And then, no more than a couple feet away, I saw the fallen—a group of boys silently staring at their letters with furrowed brows reflecting upon their loss. They had been hit by the news, and it had hit them hard. 

Indeed, as difficult as figuring out blocks and writing College House applications was, the process of hearing back from Residential Life offered a whole other dramatic punch. In fact, I think this week created just as much tension, if not more, than the week applications were due.  

The second decisions were released, it felt as if everyone immediately began gossiping about who had gotten into what house and who had been rejected. People wanted to ask their friends about letters, but weren’t sure if it was appropriate considering the feedback might be bad. Those who never applied were just happy to be detached from the whole situation.

As tough or joyous it can be to receive this news, it’s important to keep in mind that decisions should not be taken personally. The truth of the matter is that most Bowdoin students are qualified to live in the houses. I know I can think of at least five friends off the top of my head who I thought would have been great in a house, but for whatever reason did not receive good news. 

Overall, there is very little transparency in the system. Many have walked away comparing themselves to similar blocks with different outcomes, unsure what exactly was the distinction between acceptance and denial. As a result, a bunch of first years have been left frustrated—some have even made the trek to Assistant Director of Residential Life Chris Rossi’s office demanding answers.

What’s more, I find it interesting just how hard this news is hitting some of my classmates. Being a part of a College House will undoubtably be a defining factor of sophomore year, but not our entire time at Bowdoin. I think the idea that College Houses determine the course of college careers is unwarranted.

Greek systems are all about making weird bonds between sisters and brothers that last eternally. This is not the case with College Houses—many students who spend a year living in one seldom return. Once members leave, they move on—and are ceremoniously described as “old” members of the house. Unlike a fraternity or a sorority, being a part of the College House does not necessarily make for lifelong connections.

First years have been high-strung all week about College Housing, but the College House system is by no means the end-all of our sophomore year. Yes, the system can be a wonderful thing, and to those who have received good news, congrats. However, the fact we are all part of the Bowdoin community will always be a more present factor than whether or not we are a part of a house.